This book actually started out as a therapeutic social media journal i kept to help me chronicle, process and get through certain difficult periods in my relationships with black women.

As i compiled more and more content, i began using it to study where i and others went wrong in certain situations in relationships

and where i and others were successful.

I believe that this book can help us to view our unique personal relationship problems in a more analytical and rational way. 

It helps us to see and realize that most of our problems are the result of various trauma and poisoning we receive from a white supremacist system of our former slave masters and their descendants. 

My hope is that this book will give us the mental courage and strength to be totally honest with ourselves first, and then with our mates.
My desire is for black men and women to not see each other as enemies, but see each other as Family.